This article is originally written for the ManipalBlog under my weekly column 'Serenade of My City'. It appears here. Visit this site for wonderful articles.
Every beginning has an end. Without an end, there can be no new
beginnings. But with this, comes the time to face the inevitable, that
something none of us look forward to mostly – Change! But my friends,
as i always quote - Change is the only constant!
Two months back, when i joined my new work place, i met strangers,
who then became friends over the span of time and now it’s time to bid
farewell, to people who are not strange anymore. Transitioning to the
new workplace, new project, new people – more strangers. The whole
process of formal introductions, heartfelt greetings, cordial
hand-shakes and not-so-accurate-judgements repeats!
As i sit jobless on my second day at work, with a system that refuses
to boot, and a mouse cursor that won’t budge, i feel like i don’t
belong here. A familiar feeling every time a person is thrown into an
unfamiliar environment i think. But then i imagine myself here, two
months from now. How’s that gonna be like?
Courtesy |
Also something i realized is that people see and learn. But people behave in the ways that they have experienced. ‘What you know’ and ‘How you are’ are two completely different things. If
we’ve been treated well, we are more likely to treat others the same
way. But if we’ ve not… then… well..!!! So next time i find a new-bee
around, i’ve decided to make an effort and make their presence felt. A simple time-to-time smile, a courteous nod, a ‘How’s-it-going’ or a ‘Need-any-help’ would surely help break some ice.
One simple typical Indian example for this is the age-old battle
between the Saas-Bahus which is decreasing tremendously now. Yet, this
has been the bread and butter for our TV-Shows. So well… The new D.I.L
gets ill-treated by her M.I.L. The D.I.L soon becomes a M.I.L and treats
her D.I.L the same way she had been treated. Why ? Only because she
wishes everyone D.I.L around to face what she had to, when she was one!
Tit for yet another tat! The one who breaks the chain is the one who
brings harmony into the family.
Anyway, this is all that my serenade sings this week in my city.
Gearing up for a week of unfamiliar notes and grilling tunes, i sign
off! Have a wonderful week you guys. So long!
This article is originally written for the ManipalBlog under my weekly column 'Serenade of My City'. It appears here. Visit this site for wonderful articles.
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